Who’d have thought it.  Last night my oldest (yep, the one that features in my last post about how much she hates dressing up, therefore dreads World Book Day) actually said to me, ‘I’m really worried school’s going to be closed because of the snow.  That means World Book Day will be cancelled.’  I mean, what?? After all those year’s of pain I’ve actually got it right?

This year she chose Matilda from the Worst Witch, having read the books before the CBBC series, and then again after.  Perfect choice as the costume is basically a school uniform, therefore she won’t stand out and ‘look stupid.’  Her words, not mine.  So apparently we nailed it this year. She liked the pinafore dress, and has apparently always wanted to wear a tie.

All systems go until we wake up this morning, and like in most areas across the country the announcement is made ‘SCHOOL IS CLOSED.’  Much whooping from the kids, much sighing from the parents.  With temperatures not due to rise above -3 there wasn’t really much of a decision to be made. There are certainly not many mornings you see a group of snowboarders walk past the end of your drive anyway!  Costume shelved for next year then?

Good luck to everyone at home today,  I can’t help thinking this is the perfect day to snuggle up with a good book (if the kids allow.)  If not, focus on that gin later.  Maybe World Book Day isn’t so bad after all.




Ok, so World Book Day is fast approaching.  I know, as a total book geek this is something that I should embrace, as it really does get children talking about books, buying books and gets people in independent bookshops which as you know is something I’m a bit obsessed with.  However, it is the one day of the year I dread.  Why?  Because my book-worm of a daughter absolutely hates dressing up.  It’s not even a diva type hatred, she just hates it full stop.  It makes her feel insecure and a bit stupid, two things that children don’t like to feel.

For the first year, I just about convinced her that it was going to be OK.  Luckily, the event was on her birthday so aged 5, the thought of the whole school dressing up for her was enough of a distraction to actually get her through the doors.  The next year, not quite so lucky.  It didn’t fall on her birthday, she was a year older and wiser, and could quite eloquently explain why she thought the whole thing was ridiculous.  I swear the nail marks are still on the door frame of her classroom.  I think she lasted about an hour, so as she had her school uniform underneath she spent the rest of the time surreptitiously shedding her outfit until she was once again ‘normal.’

I’ve bought outfits, made them, borrowed them but nothing has worked.  It isn’t just World Book Day I have to say.  ‘Pirate Day’ at school is still etched on my Mum’s memory as one of the worst of her life.  She had the task of trying to get her to school dressed as yes, a pirate.  The problem? A pirate is a man, and she didn’t want to go to school dressed as a boy.  Exactly, oh boy.  Not helped that her best pal tipped up in some kind of girl’s pirate attire, rather than a borrowed costume from yes, a boy.  Not good.  I don’t even think she lasted an hour that time.

For the past two years we’ve managed to pull of a Matilda/wearing normal clothes look, but I think a third year is getting a bit much, so she’s plumped for Mildred Hubble, from the Worst Witch.  She loves the books, backed up by the new series on CBBC.  This is got to be a winner, I mean, she basically wears school uniform doesn’t she? Ah yes, but it has to be the right school uniform.  I could actually feel my chest tightening as we drove to the shops yesterday, how can this be littered with so many issues? My middle one was sorted in about three minutes, wanting to go as Wanda from Where’s Wally.  That involved a stripey top and some glasses. Job done.  Unsurprisingly, we didn’t find anything for the older one.

For a girl whose favourite past-time is reading, it does seem a real shame that the day is so hideous for her.  Obviously as a Mum I blame myself, as I too hate the thought of dressing up. Usually I would tell her to ‘just get on with it,’ ‘stop being so daft’ etc etc, but, as she is in general one of the loveliest, calmest people I know, I’ll let her have this one.

I am now nervously awaiting the arrival of the ‘Mildred’ pinafore dress, bought online on return from the shops.  It is likely to be the wrong colour, shape, size, length but at least we’ve tried.  The tie has also been ordered.  Just got to create some type of sash and we might be safe.  That’s until the morning of the actual day, and who knows what might happen.  Roll on March the 2nd.




Audio books, the current saviour of bedtime. Three tired kids and one worn out Mum (whose husband is hiding somewhere at work) undeniably equals one tough part of the day.

We are currently half way through a CD of traditional bedtime stories, and as I’m trying to get the 8 week old to settle, my 5 year old curls up in bed and has a listen. It takes any tension out of the situation (i.e. that 3 kids needing you in 3 separate places all at the same time thing.) She thinks she is getting a real treat so it gives me an extra few guilt-free minutes with the (extra) little one and all and all makes that crazy hour a little easier.  I have to say I have always been a bit sniffy about audio books, as I just thought they were a way of avoiding reading books, but having done a bit of research I have completely changed my mind.

Apparently, according to much cleverer people than me, audio books give the child more freedom to use their imagination as they are not directed by pictures on the page.  It also helps practice their listening skills, which is a great one if your child is a bit wriggly when you try and read.  If they move and miss something then they will soon learn that they will lose the thread of the story.  Audio books also allow your child to enjoy books that are a bit harder than the ones they might try and read.  Children who are put off books with lots of pages, or ones with lots of words have a different way in to a story they may otherwise not manage.  And there are some really good ones out there at the minute.   All of David Walliams books are on CD, Roald Dahl (read by himself!) Paddington and so on,  all the classics that otherwise maybe too much to handle.

I’m not entirely sure what will happen when we get to the end of the CD, or how long I will get away with this as in my heart of heart I know it is only a short term solution. I am also keen that it doesn’t happen every night, as I do obviously want to still read to my daughter, especially as she has just started to want to read out loud too. However, I’m not going to beat myself up about it when things are so busy. She is certainly enjoying them, so I’m not going to stop something that works. There’s also the added bonus of using the same stories when out and about in the car, or when you simply need some down time.  I suppose that this is the key to this whole blog, just do what works best for you and your family and make sure it is always enjoyable.

So, finally got round to registering the little one’s birth, and super delighted to be handed the Book Trust book pack.  I honestly thought this was something that had been squeezed thanks to the recession/austerity/govn cuts etc etc but no! Two free books and a leaflet giving advice on how to share books with your little one.  There’s nothing ground-breaking within the advice as such, it’s mainly stuff that will come naturally to you I’m sure, but the bit I really like is the part that says ‘you don’t have to be a good reader yourself to read to your child.’  This is because it is the soothing sound of your voice that is more important than the actual words.  You could read them the football results and it wouldn’t matter.  What your child will really enjoy is the act of sitting on your knee, cuddling up on the sofa, whatever you fancy that makes the experience fun for both of you.  Therefore, even if you feel a bit nervous about it, do give it a go.  The younger the better too.  Starting really young (and I’m talking weeks old) might feel a bit ridiculous at first, as clearly they won’t understand a word, but if you can make the act of reading enjoyable, then I promise it will stay with your child for the rest of their life.  Just a quick look together when they are in that tiny window of calm, or part of your routine before naps.  If, however, you’ve got older ones of which books don’t seem to hold their attention, then choose books with interesting, bright pictures and spend your time looking at them instead.  You don’t even need to read the story, you could play a spotting game, or you could ask your child to show you the colours they know, names of objects they can point out etc, anything that boosts your child’s confidence around books.  This is all about making your child feel good about themselves and their skills. Asking your child to choose the book will also boost their enthusiasm.  They’ll soon let you know their favourite one – of which you will get to know very well!

Pick your moment though.  Obviously if they are totally wriggly and getting annoyed then don’t force them into trying to read, do it at a more peaceful time, perhaps before their nap-time or when they are still sleepy in the mornings (apparently that actually happens and not all kids fly our of bed like it’s on fire!)  I am also a huge advocate or the bath, book, bed routine at night.  You can see earlier posts on that one, as I think a book before bed is a given.  The reading I’m talking about here is when they are fully alert and keen to learn.

I truly believe if you show a love of books and are enthusiastic to share them with your child, they will also fall in love with them. Keep it up, and thanks again to Booktrust.  If you want more tips then do check out the Booktrust website  www.booktrust.org.uk.  You can of course also raid earlier posts on this blog for more ideas!

Happy reading x




So after a brief pause, to have a baby (my third…I know!) celebrate my birthday as well as Christmas and New Year, I’m back on it.  It’s been a busy few months, but we still managed to squeeze in a few book-related highs.  For a start, I was totally bowled over during a visit to the big man when my girls were asked what they wanted as presents.  And do you know what they both said?  ‘Books!’ I have to admit there was a tablet in the mix for my youngest one, so clearly I’m not totally anti-tec but books still played a big part in the (huge) hoard under the tree. For both girls, (from Father Christmas…)there was a big box of books alongside their stocking.  Particularly for the older one, they were the next in the series of ones we have read together, or classics that she is now old enough to enjoy.  It was really good fun to put together, I imagine, and I think she appreciated it.  There’s a few that I’m really excited about her starting, such as Harry Potter. What an adventure lies ahead!!

Back to babies, and I have been super surprised about the importance of books to little babies, and we’re talking really young ones.  Mine is now 5 weeks old, so I had a quick look at one of those ‘What to expect from your 5 week old’ websites, and I’m totally delighted that books are mentioned, described as a really important part in their development.  I know, I was surprised too, but the thinking behind it is that as their eyesight starts to improve they enjoy starting to recognise different shades, such as black and white.  So, books with black and white pages are a winner.  This not only establishes an early connection of fun with Mum, but must make your baby see books as a good, positive thing.  I can’t image mine will get it straight away, but I can only see this is as a good idea, setting the foundations for a good relationship with books in the future, and I know how hard that can be for a boy!

There are loads on the market, all specially designed for those first few months.  I have a few from the Amazing Baby range which have been enjoyed by all my kids. Remember, a trip to your local independent bookshop is the best place to get tailor- made advice, as well as a hot cup of tea and cake.  Just what is called for when you have a little baby in tow!

Not that I needed an excuse but definitely going to be waving a few pages in front of my little one from now on.  Not too much, about 10 minutes of play time before he gets too tired is the advice, but can’t wait for him to get up to give it a try.  Let’s hope he enjoys them as the rest of us, I’ll keep you posted!