So, how has it been going? Here’s hoping that your kids are settled back in school and enjoying the new term.  Mine have now reached Yr 4 and Yr 1, and it feels like things have really stepped up.  Fitting in homework, spellings, after-school clubs and reading x 2 can sometimes feel like a bit of squeeze.  Luckily my kids are pretty laid-back and we can get away with doing stuff on the hoof, but the reading bit is something that I am still pretty stern about.

I don’t know about you, but both my kids hit a bit of a stumbling book with their reading in Yr1, so this blog is about the need for (even more) patience.  From experience, and again I could be completely wrong, the reason for it is down to a huge leap in development and understanding, and the stumble is actually a good thing.  Throughout early years and reception it is all about phonetics, breaking down words and sounding them out.  Well, once they get to grips with this, then all that is old school – and they want to move on!!  This period, when it seems as though they are going backwards, is them actually getting to grips with ‘reading.’  Not sounding out words, but having a go at sight reading what is in front on them, just like we do as adults.

The upside is that they are now on their way to becoming super confident readers, the downside is that it takes heaps of patience from you.  They might not want to read anymore, as they are finding it tough.  It’s hard on their little brains to make the words make sense, so the biggest bit of advice I can give you is…go easy.  if you are used to them flying through their school books, but can now only manage a page or two, then as frustrating as it seems don’t worry, it’s OK.  It will come back.  Just do your best not to make reading a stressful time, keep it as something fun to do and then when they are ready it’ll fall into place.  Here’s some other tips that might be useful:

1 – I don’t think there is any harm in you reading the book to them first, so that it doesn’t feel like such a mountain to climb.  Often, their books will have more words then before, so it be a bit overwhelming.  If you go first they will feel more confident to give it a go.

2 – Play a game, make it fun.  You could read alternate words, every other sentence, five words at a go, whatever makes them smile and feel relaxed.  You also pick a letter out and let them only read the word starting with that letter.  Just make it enjoyable.

3 – This is a little technique used by the reading charity Beanstalk.  Let them read, but when they’ve had enough, they can tap on the page a couple of times, as a sign that they want you to take over.  It’s not something I’ve tried but it is designed to give them a bit of control over the reading session.

4- Don’t try and get them to read when they are tired, hungry etc.  Keep it a nice thing to do together.

5 – Shhh…don’t tell anyone, but if their school book is just not interesting them, just talk through it with them and hope the next one is better.  It is not a test, don’t force them if they are really not interested.  They can’t be expected to be enthralled by everything!

  • As a bit of a disclaimer, if you think your child is really struggling, as in you think there is something stopping them from reading, then don’t hesitate to talk to your teacher.  They will be really pleased that you are on it and will try and help.
  • Also, kids learn to read at different speeds!!!  Don’t ever be worried if you child seems to be not getting as fast as others. It is a skill that falls into place at different times.  Just please keep and fun and make it something that our child doesn’t become scared off.

Let me know how it goes!

 

 

 

 

Nearly there! End of the last week of what is the complete chaos of the Summer holidays.  I’ve been lucky enough to be off with the girls this Summer and it’s been lovely. I really can’t complain and haven’t found it too stressful.  Bloody expensive, but not as hard as I thought, although I’d be first to admit all the adventures I had planned didn’t happened.  A trip to Wales and a few friends houses plus 2 new guinea pigs was as far as we got, but we did it with limited arguments and a smiles on our faces so I’m taking that as a win.    I hope everyone else has had an OK time too, although I know what a headache juggling the kids can be if you’ve had to work.  But you’re almost there, back to school next week!

This coming year I’ll have one in Year 1 and one in Year 4.  Neither of my two are that great with change, so I always start the new term with a bit of trepidation.  My youngest was absolutely distraught at leaving Reception, so I have no idea how she will take to Year 1.  I know my older one struggled, finding the transition to a more work driven environment tough, but fingers crossed she copes.  As for Year 4, I have no idea what it may bring!

I have no tips for the year ahead as yet, (brain gone dead during the holidays) other than to remember that whatever year/s you are facing,  your kids are still only young and work, after school activities, reading (!!) etc should be fun.  Don’t put too much pressure on them to succeed, they’ve got the rest of their lives to cope with that one.  However, and I can’t emphasis this one enough, if you think your child does have an issue with a particular subject, (obviously reading is the one I’m most passionate) then don’t be afraid to kick up a fuss.  Go with your instinct, as unfortunately in our cash-strapped education system we now have to fight for everything.  I can’t urge you enough to fight for what your child needs, as thanks to our target loving Government schools just don’t have the time, facilities, extra departments anymore to do it alone. You need to be there every step of the way if you think there is a problem.  Just remember though, that it’s not the teachers fault, or the schools, they want the best for your child as well, it’s just there are limited resources they can access.  I’ve heard lots of cases of children who may be dyslexic, but can’t get the message across to school, as sadly extra services cost extra money.  Keep going though, as you can get support, you just need to know where to look.  Here’s an unusually useful article from the Daily Mail:

www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-134958/Getting-child-assessed-dyslexia

Here’s a few other websites that may be able to help:

www.nhs.uk/conditions/Dyslexia/PagesDiagnosis

www.bdadyslexia.org.uk/services/assessments

Good luck and all the best for the year ahead!!

 

 

It’s been really interesting to see lots of articles on social media about the importance of reading 10 minutes every day with your child over the Summer. ( http://www.wordsforlife.org.uk/summer-holidays/reading )  I couldn’t agree more, however, in reality I know how difficult it can be to put into practice.  All you’ve got to remember is that it isn’t your job to teach your child to read, just give them time to practice and make it an enjoyable experience.  You don’t have to make it a designated ‘let’s sit down with a book and read’ session, instead you can incorporate it into your day.  Reading has to be fun otherwise your child won’t do it!

Obviously it’s easier if you’re at home with your kids, but if you’re working there are still things you can do.  If you’re in the habit of reading to your child at bedtime, then dig out a book that you know they will understand a few words and let them have a go at those.  Choose a book with rhymes so that they get confident with it, and then will naturally join in once you’ve read it a few times.  If your child loves their i-pad download a book that you can read together.  There are lots of interactive/funny books out there to enjoy (as a Summer treat, books with pages are best!) You could also let them read the whole book but I know how much this elongates bedtime and that is not what you want after a busy day at work!

If you don’t usually read at bedtime, as it’s the Summer and everyone’s a bit more relaxed, could you give it a go?  Let your child choose the book as they will be keener to show off their skills.  Or, can you squeeze anything in in the morning?  I’m not kidding, even reading off the back of a cereal packet gets the thumbs up from me!

If you are at home with the kids, here’s a few ideas to pull off some reading practice without them knowing..

1 – If you’re going out for the day, let them do the planning.  Even if it’s a trip to the cinema, get them to google where you are going and what the film is about.  Deny all knowledge of the day ahead and they will read out what they have discovered.  Job done.

2 – If you’re going a bit further afield, boys especially love anything to do with directions.  Get them on AA route planner and let them work out the journey.  You could print it off and let them ‘direct’ as you go, although I can only imagine how irritating that might get.  Could be a way of keeping them entertained in the car for a bit though!

3-Also on the instruction front, have you ever tried geo-caching? Download the app and off you go.  There is a bit of research to be done, as well as some instructions to follow.  You get fresh air along the way and is a good way of tricking kids into going for a walk without realising.

4- If your staying in, cooking/baking is an easy way to do a bit of reading.  Get your child to choose the recipe and then read out the instructions as you go.  It’s a great way to test their comprehension skills as well.

5- Always remember reading doesn’t always have to involved a book.  On a wet afternoon nip down to your newsagent’s and choose a magazine together.  Children’s ones are packed with things to do with lots of snippets to read.  Boys particularly like graphic comics – remember if they enjoy them then they will read it!

6 – The Summer reading Challenge at the library.  https://summerreadingchallenge.org.uk They basically need to read 6 books over the holidays.  What’s good is that they can be any books, you just need to be able to tell the librarian what they were about.  It’s probably for younger, and keener readers but there are stickers and challenges to keep the interested.  (And a medal and certificate at the end!)

7 – A visit to your local bookshop.  Independent ones are great as they always have activities on, as well as a café for a bit of TLC when you get there.  As you know I’m a huge fan of them, and is a good way of killing an hour or so on a wet afternoon.  If you have a few pennies to spare let them choose a book each, and this could be the book you dip into for your 10 minutes a day.

8 – Lead by example!  If you read, and your children see you read, then they are much more likely to give it a go.

If you have keen readers then happy days, you can get them to read pretty easily.  You could even do 10 minutes  before you get out of bed, but I know everyone isn’t so lucky.  Just try and keep the interest alive so that they are keen to continue learning at school.  Roll on September!

 

 

 

 

If you’re short of things to do this Summer then nip down and support your local independent bookshop.  You can’t go wrong.  Even if you’re not a huge reader there’s often a café, things for the kids to do, and lots of lots of alternative books to browse that you may not have ever considered looking at.  The best ones, especially when you have young children, should feel like a portal into the adult/real world.  I get strength from them that, yes, your brain still works and you can have an intelligent conversation whilst your kids are occupied elsewhere in the shop.

Simply Books in Bramhall, Cheshire is a great example. The owners, Sue and Andrew, are always on hand to stop and chat, and will always give up their time to pass on advice and recommendations.  They clearly care about you and your needs and have a wealth of knowledge to go at.   You don’t get that on-online!

So with Summer in mind, I cheekily asked Sue to help me pick out a few of her favourite and most popular reads for children aged 4-6, and 8+.  These are books that might actually  keep your little one entertained just long enough for you to sit down next to the pool in peace.   Ok, well, maybe.  We’re not miracles workers!

 

1 – Hide and Spot: Zoo on the Move  – Lo Cole

Basically it’s a spotting book with a cool red lens that makes the image visible once you hold it over it.  It’s kept my youngest entertained throughout our holiday.  It’s just brilliant.  That’s all I can say.  One up from your usual spotting book, and in hard back it’s just lovely to have on your shelf. The down side is that if the lens goes missing the book is pretty useless so it might be one to look at together!  Every illustration throws up a surprise and there are loads, so you will definitely feel like you have got your money’s worth.  I really love this one, and if it hadn’t been for Sue I wouldn’t have ever found it.  The story of the creator, Lo Cole, is really interesting too.  In the past he’s drawn for Vogue, The Times and Sony amongst loads of others.  A really different, fun book that everyone will enjoy.

 

 2 -Big Brown Bear’s Cave – Yuval Zommer

To be honest I only had a quick flick of this one, but my little one loved it and Sue recommended it as one with lovely pictures and a really good message.  It’s all about the value of friendship and has lots of humour in it.  Yuval Zommer is a lovely illustrator too, ‘One Hundred Bones’ and ‘One Hundred Sausages’ are previous favourites of ours!  I think it’s the perfect bedtime read on holiday as it gives you a chance to calm your child down before bed.

3 – The Koala who Could – Rachel Bright & Jim Field

Ok, so anything with Jim Field’s name on it is a winner.  His drawings are just beautiful, funny, cute, whatever you want to call them; they are simply joyous to look at.  Rachel Bright’s stories also always have a lovely message, and this one is no exception.  They’ve worked together previously so they are clearly a reliable partnership to deliver you a great story.  A huge thumbs from my little one!

 

4- Danny McGee Drank the Sea -Andy Stanton and Neal Layton

A really witty book which really tickles my daughter every time she reads it, and she’s read it a lot as it has been part of a project at school!  Now, anyone who has enjoyed the wonders of ‘Mr Gum’ (see previous post) then you might have a little inkling of how clever this book is.  The pictures are great too, Neal also illustrated the Emily Brown series so you might recognise his style.

5 – Supertato – Sue Hendra

This series has been a bedtime favourite of my youngest for a while now, so I had to pass on the recommendation.  They are just completely wacky stories about an evil pea and a super hero potato who always saves the day – what more can I say!  I think it appeals both to boys and girls and will keep them entertained over and over again.

 

Thanks to Sue for all these ideas, we both really hope you like them.  Now onto the 8 +!  Together, we chose a range of books that are for both the eager reader, or the much more reluctant one.  I’ll point out which is which as I go.

1 Knitbone Pepper Ghost Dog – Claire Barker and Ross Collins

This has been a surprise hit, as interestingly my daughter said she didn’t want to read it as she thought it was a spooky story.  However, after the author came to her school she changed her mind! Funny, beautifully illustrated and with a dog in it.  Can’t go wrong, especially as there is a series to go at.  It’s quite wordy, so might scare off an unsure reader but I think the pictures help draw potential readers in.  Check out the signed copies at Simply Books too!

 

2 There’s a Werewolf in my Tent – Pamela Butchart

This is the latest in a really funny, edgy series that have been read from cover to cover by my oldest.  Now, it looks scary on the front, which it kind of is, so one perhaps best to avoid before bed/at sleepovers etc (that’s sound advice from my daughter who was woken with a bad dream at her cousin’s house after reading it !*!) However, it’s not in anyway really scary, just humorously so.  Interestingly the marketing blurb with the book says it is for the ‘newly confident reader’ so would be a good one for children who need a little push to get started.  A good one for boys too.  If they like this one, the rest of the series is just as good, and features the same characters.

 

 

3 – Fantasically Great Women Who Changed the World – Kate Pankhurst

Now, Sue said this is a book simply everyone should have.  As the title so clearly states, this is a non-fiction book about really important women through history.  It’s beautifully put together, and as you can see by the author’s name it has a real personal touch to it.  It’s one you can dip in and out of, but essential reading for all kids.  This could really go in both ages groups as it is accessible to both due to the illustrations.  I think this one would throw up lots of questions, so on a wet day in Wales you could have fun doing a bit of research together.

 

 

4- Claude on Holiday by Alex T. Smith

This series was chosen for a number of reasons.  Sue says they are really popular, and perfect for a reader put off by wordy books.  Also, they have been picked up by Disney Junior and turned into an animation, so we’re thinking they are soon going to be really big!  My oldest one, who is a strong reader, felt they were a bit young for her so I think they would be a great read for children who don’t usually enjoy books.  The drawings are fantastic and Claude himself is a real treat. In this one he gets into all sorts of trouble when he meets pirates and finds treasure! Obviously, a great one for the beach.

 

5 – Knighthood for Beginners – Elys Dolan

This one is on our recommendation list because Sue herself has been bowled over by the response from her customers.  Children have been coming in and asking for it, and due to its popularity Simply Books have done some signings with Elys and said she was great fun, or ‘bonkers’ as she is described on the front! (Hence the signed copies still in stock if you’re quick!) This is a brilliant read for boys, has great illustrations and a really unusual hero in Dave the dragon and his friend, Albrecht the goat.  It’s off the wall, will make anyone laugh out loud and a real joy to have in your collection.

 

 

 

 

Phew, Ok, so there are some, I hope, really interesting ideas for your hols. I can’t tell you how important sticker books are too, always great to have in your bag whilst out and about on holiday, or simply for the journey.  They keep my lot happy for a fair amount of time, filling that gap when they are really tired out but don’t want to admit it.

A huge thanks to Sue at Simply Books – check out upcoming events at http://simplybooks.info  or on Facebook.

Happy holidays!

 

 

 

 

 

 

You know me, I’m a sucker for anything that makes a child open a book and see what’s inside.  So, when I heard about Easyjet’s Library in the Sky I nearly wept!  What a brilliant idea.  On various flights this Summer, at the front of every middle seat will be a free book for your child to read.  There are also extracts on the website, so if you are mega organised you can have a look what might be on offer before you fly.  http://www.easyjet.com/en/bookclub

Now in reality I know it’s not going to make much of a difference, as most kids (and parents) look forward to a guilt free few hours on the i-pad whilst in the air.  It’s the one time when your happy for them to binge on Peppa Pig and everything above.  Me included.  However, maybe just having a book in front of them that is free of charge, might just encourage some to at least open the cover, and see that books aren’t the enemy and aren’t ‘boooring.’  They’ve been chosen by Dame Jaqueline Wilson so come with a huge stamp of approval by someone who knows a good book when they see one, and you can catch her new book on the website too.  A lot of them have been turned into films, so a quick chat about what they’ve seen might be a good way to encourage them to start reading.

I’m really hoping that the books get looked after, and aren’t destroyed by the second week of the holidays.  Wouldn’t it be great if the idea inspired someone to sit by the pool and read – and you could get the cheeky beer in after all.

Happy holidays everyone!!